How to fall in love with hummingbirds

female ruby throated hummingbird in flight - blurred green background

Zippin along by JeffreyW

“How do you fall in love with hummingbirds?” I asked my teens. We were sitting at the kitchen table eating dinner while two female ruby-throated hummers flitted back and forth outside the window.

My two teens stared blankly back at me. Silence… “I mean it,” I said, “I want to tell people how to fall in love with hummingbirds. How do you do it?” Still silence. “Well,” I said, “How do you fall in love?”

Falling in love is simple

“What is the first step in falling in love?”

My teen daughter was growing impatient. “You see. You fall in love,” was her curt reply. “Who needs to ask how to fall in love with a hummingbird? It’s simple. Just see one.”

How to see hummingbirds

Assuming you don’t have Mom to do it for you, it’s still surprisingly easy to “snare” a hummingbird or two to fall in love with. Here are five ways to attract them.

  1. Add at least one native flowering plant or shrub with red, trumpet-shaped flowers to your garden.
  2. Hang a hummingbird feeder – preferably from your window.
  3. Leave slim dead branches on your trees. Hummingbirds need very narrow perches for their tiny feet. They like to sit on leafless branches, which give them an open view.
  4. Put out rotten fruit, such as tomatoes and banana peels. Hummingbirds need small insects to add protein to their diet and they enjoy fruit flies.
  5. Tie bright red, pink, or orange ribbons to your trees and to your feeder. When you put up a new feeder hummers will need to find it before you will see them. Hummers are attracted to red, pink, and orange objects.

Are you in love yet?

“It’s easy to fall in love with a hummingbird.” My teens haven’t forgotten my dumb question – two days later they’re still shaking their heads over it. Is it really that easy, or does life get in the way for most of us? Have you fallen in love with nature yet?

Kid tip: actions speak louder than words. When kids live with adults who respect and care for nature they just think that’s the way the world is.

Easy, delicious, quick meals from garden veggies

balsamic onions in a jar

Balsamic onions by Jules Clancy

I dug my fork into my raised bed garden dirt and pulled out one small onion after another. I dumped them into my green garden bucket.

Some of my onions were barely bigger than the onion sets I planted months ago, yet these onions were the fruits of my labor and they deserved to be turned into something delicious.

The truth about homegrown, garden veggies

As a new gardener I was often frustrated by the veggies I’d spent my time growing. Small, sometimes mis-shapen, they were not much to look at.

While easy access to supermarket produce had conditioned me to expect vegetables which look perfect, it’s the taste that counts; homegrown veggies taste good.

Easy, delicious recipes for your veggies

I don’t have much patience for complicated recipes with long lists of mostly non-seasonal ingredients. If you are the same you will enjoy minimalist cook Jules Clancy. Her recipes are simple (most have 5 ingredients or less), delicious, quick (many take only 10 minutes to prepare), and just perfect for seasonal cooking with garden veggies.

Jules free e-cookbook Minimalist Home Cooking contains a wealth of simple recipes. Every single one of Jules’ recipes I’ve tried tastes good. While you think about how to cook with garden veggies, here is a list of Jules’ recipes you may want to try. Recipe names without links are from Jules free e-cookbook.

You may want to download yourself a copy of Jules free e-cookbook Minimalist Home Cooking and follow some of the recipe links above to get a taste of what Jules does. If you like what you see, Jules has several other cookbooks available in her StoneSoup Shop, and she teaches courses through her StoneSoup Virtual Cookery School.

Enjoy your seasonal, garden harvest

The truth, when it comes to garden veggies, is that looks aren’t everything. Small is fine. Blemished is OK. Mis-shapen can become an asset. Homegrown garden veggies have character. Even when they look bad they taste good. The trick to enjoying your veggies lies in knowing how to turn even small, ugly vegetables into something delicious.

Which veggies do you have ready for harvest? Did I miss your favorite veggie from the recipe list?

Kid tip: young kids love to help with harvesting veggies. Also let them swirl veggies in water to rinse, and rip lettuce into pieces for salad.

The hidden treasure weed which monarchs love

honey bee on group of white flower heads from sweet smelling honeyvine

Honey bee on honeyvine

“A weed by any other name would smell more sweet.”

I step outside the back door and immediately grow heady on the intoxicating perfume of honeyvine.

Bees, butterflies, iridescent flies, and jaw-droppingly giant wasps float in and out of my garden nectaring on this sweet feast.

Of all the flowers in my garden these are the ones the insects love most. So, is honeyvine, usually called a weed, really a native plant treasure?

What is honeyvine?

If you have honeyvine in your garden you probably know it. At the start of summer honeyvine appears.

At first you’ll see slim, delicate, curling stems with little heart-shaped leaves, in pairs, on opposite sides of the slim stem. The stems are quite easy to remove at this point with a quick tug.

In August clusters of small green-white flowers appear. From a distance honeyvine, otherwise known as mikweed vine, is mostly green. You’ll see it though because wherever it appears it grows like crazy – it smothers fences, shrubs, and small trees. If you leave it be it will even kill a shrub or small tree by blocking all their light.

black swallowtail butterfly feeding on honey vine

Black swallowtail adult on honeyvine

Why honeyvine is a treasure

Despite its thuggish nature honeyvine is a native plant treasure. It has a hidden secret which is revealed by its other common name, milkweed vine.

Let honeyvine, Cynanchum laeve, grow and you have the easiest ever monarch caterpillar food source.

Yes, honeyvine is related to milkweeds, but, in my experience it is just a ton easier to grow.

Many are working to save the amazing monarch and honeyvine is the secret treasure which never seems to get a mention.

Where does honeyvine grow?

Honeyvine milkweed, also known sometimes as Ampelamus albidus, is native to the US east of the Rocky Mountains and to Idaho.

Honeyvine milkweed can currently be found, according to the USDA, growing in the following states: Alabama, Arkansas, Washington DC, Florida, Georgia, Iowa, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Mississippi, North Carolina, Nebraska, New York, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, Virginia, and West Virginia.

green and gold monarch butterfly crysalis hanging from a twig

Monarch chrysalis by SidPix

The treasure of honeyvine

If you have never seen the chrysalis of a monarch you are missing a rare treat. Photographs can not do it justice.

Monarch chrysalis are dotted with pure, shining, gold dots. They are truly nature’s gemstones.

Let honeyvine milkweed grow in your garden and it’s easy to find a monarch caterpillar to raise.

Take a monarch caterpillar inside, place in a large pretzel jar with masses of honeyvine, add new leaves every day, supply a twig, and wait.

Your monarch caterpillar will quickly grow, then it will build a silk attachment, hang upside down, and transform into a gold-decorated chrysalis right before your eyes. Nature is so amazing!

Is honeyvine a weed or a treasure

Despite it’s sweet name, honeyvine milkweed is considered by many to be a weed. In truth it is a native plant with much to recommend it. It’s not even very difficult to control in your garden – simply pull out unwanted stems when they appear.

While you want to remove honeyvine from shrubs and small trees, be sure to leave some for the monarchs. What could be a more beautiful garden treasure than gold-encrusted chrysalis and floating monarch butterfly beauties?

Are butterflies visiting your garden? Do you have any honeyvine milkeed?

Kid tip: raising caterpillars is one of the easiest and best nature projects to do with kids. I don’t know about you, but I never tire of it.